the tools to love (interlude)

Have you ever loved someone who didn't have the tools to love you?
Or have you not have the tools to love someone?
Do you wanna start?
I think all of my relationships, I did not have the tools to love
And I think I am constantly growing on what love is
I think one of the beautiful things about getting older
And then, like, constantly being like
"I'm older," this and this and that
Is, like, realizing, like, "Wow, you missed out on
This feeling, so you compensated for this in this"
I feel like all my relationships, I became super attached
Or they became super attached to me
Because of, like, the distance of love
Or the, the absence of love that we've had in each other's lives
So we tried to build it